This post is dedicated to the job seekers that I, personally, feel the most connected with.
Here’s to you recent college graduates!
As a recent college grad myself…I know exactly how many of you are feeling. And I’m not talking about the smug sense of accomplishment that goes along with that new addition to your wall decór. (When my college diploma arrived in a cardboard cylinder tube my little sister exclaimed: “JULIE!!! You got a new POSTER in the mail!”…) I’m talking about the feeling that materializes after all of the graduation parties have been celebrated, and after all of the checks have been deposited and thank-you notes sent. It’s difficult to describe but its something like excitement, fear, anticipation, and nausea. I found myself avoiding family get togethers so that I would not have to answer the inevitable: “So what are you doing now, Julie?” Because I didn’t know, I had no idea what I wanted to do or what was the best path to take to get there.
I consider myself very fortunate because I managed to find a job that I enjoy coming to every day. I genuinely enjoy the people that I work with ( Cheers, guys). But the point that I am trying to make is that its okay to not know. Gone are they days when after graduation one started with a company and then 45 or so years later retired there. Today young adults are expected to have quite a few different jobs throughout their career. I work at a staffing agency, and one thing I have learned:
Every job is temporary.
This simple statement can take on a few different meanings. Firstly, we cannot predict the future. It is unwise to get too comfortable, no matter if you’re a first year intern or the CFO. Not only is the economy unpredictable, but so is your company’s future and your personal life. You never know what could happen.
(Just ask the shareholders of Netflix. After a recent change in their product line, and a significant price increase, Netflix lost 1 million members and shares dropped 18%. )
Secondly, its important to learn from every work experience. (This is directed at you, recent grads) Let’s face it…we may not land our “dream job” right off the bat. We may have to pay our dues for a couple of years, and that’s OKAY. What’s imperative is to remember that every position we take is an opportunity to gain some new skills.
Tip: As a recent graduate, you have little to no experience. Some may consider this to be a problem…WRONG. This could be your biggest selling point. Why? Because you are a blank slate, you are open to new ideas and can adapt to almost any corporate culture. Often times companies are specifically looking for young people because more seasoned candidates are already set in their ways. The problem is their “ways” may be a little out of date. Embrace your, for lack of a better word, naïveté. In your interview express how you 1. Have no baggage, 2. Are willing to be molded, and 3. Are full of energy and ideas…they’ll eat it up.
And lastly, remember to value yourself. Granted, you may be young and inexperienced…and maybe not sure what the heck you’re doing half the time (ahem, cough cough). But that doesn’t mean that you do not deserve respect. If you find yourself in a situation where your company is not treating you fairly, or you are truly uncomfortable in your surroundings…don’t be afraid to walk away. My Dad once told me something I’ll never forget. After being in business for many years, he learned that it is inevitable that we make mistakes and bad judgement calls. He also learned that you have to roll with the punches because life gives you a million chances. As long as you learn from your mistakes and grow as a result, you’ll do alright. So don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself, because you will be better for it…and another opportunity will present itself…you just have to keep your eyes open.
-JG







